Children

if you spend your time playing with children, you will act like a child.
if you spend your time entertaining teenagers, you will think like them.
only "adults" realize that there is a mental barrier between children and adults...
only those lost as adults think like teenagers and regress into infantile behaviors.
unable to control their inner most child. insecure and scared, pathetic... like a 5 year old that wants too much candy because it tastes good. like a teen that is reckless and selfish with their actions and behaviors. it's pathetic , sad and unattractive.

you are what you eat i suppose. i know i could never find anything in common romantically with a boy that's 18-21. Babies that don't know who they are and haven't figured out emotion just yet, not to mention what love is and responsibility. But for some reason the situation reversed is more acceptable. a grown man around 30 let's say,  will entertain a teenage girl; romantically? i could understand the relationship when the little girl is at least in her mid 20's and her partner 10+ her senior... but a teen? just doesn't fit in my mind. just something so sick about it. these little girls just got grass on the playing field, barely. let them explore with an 19 year old boy, discover life together. Instead they want a father figure? i suppose there is a lot i will never understand. i was once that 19 year old getting hit on by men 10-15 years my senior some with power and some fame. i found it disturbing, manipulative and selfish. it had a pedophile vibe to it all.  these desperate older men trying to cling to their youth, afraid to be men, afraid to be with a woman so they can score easier, and manipulate these poor children any which way they want. it's always about control isn't it? trying to stop time. a real woman would see through all the shit. no, can't have that. Men want to have their cake and eat it too, not all... but most. and they do. would stoop as low as screwing a teenage girl...

to blame it on biology would be too easy. we are all capable of using our brain. it's just a pathetic situation with delusional players on an imaginary stage. such a Woody Allen vibe to it all.